“There are only two kinds of people who can drain your energy: those you love, and those you fear. In both instances it is you who let them in. They did not force their way into your aura, or pry their way into your reality experience.” Anthon St. Maarten
Never consciously engage in conversations with people who drain thy energy, the so called emotional or energy vampires.
They simply suck out your chi, life force. This leaves you mentally or emotionally exhausted, irritated, stressed out, never eager but certainly anxious, threatened, overwhelmed or depressed... even feeling almost guilty for having negative thoughts about them.
It's easy to avoid them... when you know them. However, danger lurks around the corner when it's the people you don't know very well or people you used to know but you've lost contact with in the meantime. Or, the people you ordinarily can't escape from... like your friends and relatives and their families.
Life is precious and can be unpredictably short-lived. Yet many of us find ourselves lifeless and lethargic upon arising, or at day's end, wondering whether we could be living much better lives. In order to correct for this it'll be important to define the people, objects and situations in your life, identify the thriving ones and effectively deal with the ones that rob you of your energy.
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