Energy Vampires Part 3.5: Know who you are dealing with

"We are all connected; To each other, biologically. To the earth, chemically. To the rest of the universe atomically."
- Neil deGrasse Tyson

Where an energy drain is involuntary and subconscious, Parasite may be a better term than "energy vampire" depending on which one it is of these five kinds of folks. You must deal with them appropriately or you will eventually be subject to a psychic attack.

1. The Paranoid

Betrayal is their main issue.  They do not trust anyone and expect all others to eventually betray them.They will even assist in setting up others for this betrayal in order to prove themselves right. Aggression, as a physical behavior and as energy projection to everyone, is the most common response to the world. They constantly pick fights and must win at any cost. Never argue with this kind of person. Refrain from making eye contact with them. Lower and soften your voice when you speak to them, and change the topic to something pleasant.

2. The Ethereal jerk

Existential terror is their predominant issue. The result is both withdrawal, fear of abandonment and responding with aggression.

3. The Insecure jerk

They usually were abandoned at some time in their life, and fear it will happen again.They feign helplessness. They insist you do things for them which they could do for themselves and they expect you to take care of their every need. Give-and-take circumstances are unknown to them. All they can do is take. They may engage you in long, boring conversations and speak with you softly.They are compulsive and susceptible to addictions of all kinds. Never stand directly in front of these persons. Do not make eye contact, if possible. Encourage them with words, but do not offer to do things for them. 

4. The Passive-Aggressive jerk

Invasion and being controlled is their chief concern. They imprison themselves and project loneliness, desperation, and resentment toward everyone they contact. 
It is impossible for them to express anger. In a conversation, they will request your advice. Unfortunately, all of your suggestions are wrong and so you are of no real help to them. These people ask for but reject whatever is offered to them. Their classic response to your advice is, "yeah, but..." 

5. The dance clubber

Their main issue is authenticity. Their outer world is perfect but the inner world is denied, with no core essence.They are denying their true self, keeping up the appearance of being perfect. They never complain. They want to be and they are perfect and everything is beautiful. Usually they are in charge of running things. They may have high-paying jobs, a good reputation, a perfect spouse and family, and look in perfect health. Others envy their lifestyle. People come to them with their problems.